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Seeing the good in people is a fabulous quality. I mean, who doesn't want to be compassionate and empathetic, right? But hold on because here's the thing – when that desire to see the good leads us to turn a blind eye to red flags in relationships, we're asking for trouble. And I'm not talking about a minor inconvenience; I'm talking about potential heartbreak and emotional wreckage. So, in this article, we're diving deep into the perils of ignoring those pesky red flags and finding out why it's high time we start paying attention before it costs us dearly.
We have all been there! Picture this – your gut feeling is yelling at you to hit the eject button on a relationship, but you're all like, "Nah, I'll just ignore that little voice, thanks!" Well, let me introduce you to the tale of one brave individual who did exactly that.
Read more: Ignoring Red Flags Because You Want to See the Good in People Will Cost You Later
Have you ever wondered why some people seem to radiate joy and fulfillment while others feel stuck and unfulfilled? The answer lies in embracing and sharing our unique Gifts with the world. Just like my bestie who discovered her tarot card abilities and transformed her life, as well as mine and her clients. We all have special talents waiting to be unleashed. So, let's embark on a delightful journey of self-discovery and empowerment, sprinkled with fun!
Read more: Unleash Your Soul Gifts: Playful Steps to Shine Like a Star ?
Who would have thought that I would have to restart my life from scratch in my 50s? Initially, I was beyond pissed at the universe. I mean, come on! I had my life all planned out – marriage, kids, a dog, a picturesque house with the perfect family. It was like my own Bollywood movie playing in my head. But alas, reality doesn't always follow our scripts or dance to our tunes.
Divorce, separation, and other unexpected life events can throw us off balance and make us question everything. Why was a question I asked myself a lot during those turbulent times? Why did my life have to take this detour? Why was I being dealt this hand so late in the game? But you know what? Once I took a deep breath and ingested a tablespoon of my own advice – “Everything happens for a reason, and the universe has something amazing planned for me” – I embraced it like a warm blanket on a cool Autumn evening.
Read more: Age is Just a Number: Embracing Life's Twists and Turns with Sass and Lemonade
It’s time to drop that baggage and embrace the fabulousness of the NOW.
Letting go of the past is hard, I know, I've been there and it will creep back into your thoughts when you least expect it but we can put things into place to stop it!
Read more: Embrace the Present: Stop Using Your Past to Define Who You Are Today
Life can be a tricky journey, filled with ups and downs, twists and turns, and the occasional banana peel. But one thing's for sure: if you approach it with the right mindset, you'll find that opportunities are lurking around every corner, ready to be seized.
As the wise Wayne Dyer said, "If you believe it will work out, you'll see opportunities. If you believe it won't, you will see obstacles." So, grab your optimism hat as we explore the art of finding opportunities in a world full of obstacles.
Read more: Keep Your Eyes on the Prize: Finding Opportunities in a World Full of Obstacles
Hi, I'm Bhupi
I used to be in your shoes.
I know what it's like to be burned out, overwhelmed, and stressed out.
I relied on pizza and Netflix.
Trust me, YOU are not ALONE!
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