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Whether we talk live or via Zoom - and whether you're an employee or an entrepreneur - my speaking services can make a real difference. I will teach you to overcome burnout by taking control of your health, wellness, and happiness.

Look no further for work-life balance.

We have been programmed from a young age that money, career success and material possessions are the keys to happiness - but this is far from the truth. In fact, science proves that happiness fuels success, not the other way around.

Learn simple happiness habits.

My aim is to bring women together, and I'd love to do just that at your next event. As your speaker, I'll share six science-backed happiness habits designed to transform your life. We'll discuss proven strategies for prioritizing joy.

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Stepping out of your comfort zone isn’t easy and you’ll have to find ways to push yourself. You’ll want to set yourself up for success when you do. If not, a wrong turn out of your comfort zone can lead you to never trying again. But you can’t let fear rule you either. You have to find a balance.  

This 4 week guide will help you get out of your comfort zone to achieve greatness.

I'm Bhupi, and I went from living in fear to being a confident leader in my own right.

I went from living on Unemployment Benefit to commanding an hourly rate that I deserved, knowing the value of my expertise and being paid to do the work I deeply love to do, to help and serve those just like you.

I went from feeling ugly, embarrassed, sad, and guilty to waking up to be Bhupi.

I hit rock-bottom. I wanted to take my own life but managed to climb out using the same strategies that I will be teaching you in the next 90 days.

We are going to unleash your power so you can live a purposeful, grateful, and happy life

ÔÇ£I am HappilicousÔÇØ is going to change your life forever.

How I Overcame My Fear

IÔÇÖve been right where you are: overwhelmed, afraid and desperate for a new start.

A survivor of child, mental, sexual, and physical abuse, I lived in fear for more than 40 years.

Fear of not being liked ÔÇô of not being worthy or successful or beautiful.

After moving to London, England from Nairobi, Kenya, a few family members shamed me for having dark skin. At the tender age of 11, I was told I did not belong ÔÇô that I was ugly, a failure, and destined to be a failure and alone. I struggled to make friends, as those negative thoughts seeped into my mind.

As I turned 18, I found ways to sabotage relationships. I put walls up and didnÔÇÖt let anyone get close enough to hurt me. Subconsciously or not, I pursued dead-end relationships.

Eventually, I got married and had two amazing boys. In 2004, we all moved to Cambridge, Ontario, Canada. My kids were young, I was lonely and I hated my life. I resented my then-husband for the move.

It was like I was living in a strangerÔÇÖs body.

My marriage lasted 21 years. As the boys grew older, I noticed holes in my relationship ÔÇô big, gaping, Swiss cheese-sized holes. I realised my ex-husband and I had absolutely nothing in common aside from our children. I realised it wasnÔÇÖt going to work because I couldnÔÇÖt find the love and happiness I craved.

I needed someone who wanted the same things in life ÔÇô someone whose bucket list matched mine.

Before this realisation, I hit rock bottom. I wanted to end my life, which I felt lacked meaning or purpose. Menopause was a BITCH, which didnÔÇÖt help at all. My hormones were all over the place, so ladies, I really understand where youÔÇÖre coming from there.

I remember the day I almost threw myself off a bridge into the cold, dark waters of the Grand River. Gazing down at the waves, something snapped. I thought about all the people who would be devastated if I chose to go through with my decision. I knew there would be hurt, upset, and scarring. I thought of my kids, my mum, and of my lifelong friends (you know who you are) ÔÇô and I realised life was definitely worth living.

Of course, I knew I had to make changes. So I focused on the future. I went back to school, and today I am proud to call myself a graduate of UC BerkeleyÔÇÖs ÔÇ£Science of HappinessÔÇØ program and Yale UniversityÔÇÖs ÔÇ£The Science of Well-BeingÔÇØ program. I teach and use the Art of Mandalas as part of the healing process as well as Reiki. I am a Level 2 Reiki graduate which allows me to do long-distance healing.

During these positive life changes, I journaled like crazy. I wrote down everything I did that allowed me to be free and on the other side.

You can too.

In fact, this process laid the foundation for my ÔÇ£I am HappiliciousÔÇØ program. The program includes the same rituals I use when I get stuck in a rut.

Because I know what it feels like when you have no one to talk to ÔÇô when your life is overwhelming, and it feels like thereÔÇÖs no time for anything.

Because I want you to have it all ÔÇô love, success, and happiness.

Would you let me help guide you there?

Much Love,

BUTTON (WORK WITH ME)