Do you ever feel like you attract negative people and situations into your life?
If so, you might be a "CRAP MAGNET!"
Hey, I didn't coin the term. It's the same as a drama magnet or any kind of magnet, for that matter. And yes, it does attract crap. And yes, you might be one.
I was.
To be a crap magnet means that you're constantly attracting negative energy and experiences into your life.
Stop it.
It's time to say goodbye to negativity and hello to positive change!
Let's dive in.
META: Yes, bad things happen to good people, but it's also up to you to stop bringing the bad stuff into your life repeatedly.
It's time to stop
My amazing mentor introduced me to this wonderful term "CRAP MAGNET"!
Turns out, I'm one.
Picture me now. I'm going about my day-to-day. Everything is hunky dory, and then bam, something happens. Guy cheats. Boss is a dick. A bill is unpaid. Someone hits my car.
My mentor refers to the times like this as 'Stressors' or 'Triggers. Hey, we all get them. You know the times I'm talking about.
The problem was that every time life got tough in these ways, my relationships went to shit. Of course, as a human being, I only saw my relationship tanking and would endlessly wonder why this was the case.
So, why was it the case?
What was this cycle of lousy relationship situation to bad life situation, bad relationship situation, and so on?
I sat down and started to work things out.
I wrote down the names of every single guy I've ever had a relationship with, and that's how this shocking revelation showed up.
Since my 20's, I've been attracting the same shitty people. Shocker, right? Abusive relationships have surrounded me since early childhood, and I promised myself I would never end up there, but all I did was attract them because that has always been at the forefront.
This was a revelation.
I realized that I was ATTRACTING the same guy OVER and OVER and OVER again; narcissistic, self-centered, egoistic, controlling, gas-lighting, money centered, with a very jealous streak (that's always the cherry on top).
Why?
Because that has been my FOCUS.
Instead of focusing on what I wanted, I kept REGURGITATING, TALKING, and THINKING about what I DIDN'T want. I was literally a walking talking NEGATIVE ENERGY VIBE.
Look, some people think the law of attraction is a bit of a myth, and I've had my ups and downs with it (generally believing it), but it's stuff like this that nobody can ignore.
If you think about shit, then your life is shit.
If you're thinking about how bad you've got it, how hard life is, and how things are not going your way, then guess what? Things aren't going to go your way.
I'm not saying life isn't hard. It goddamn is.
But the fact is that good is laced in every second moment, in every single situation.
Does a guy cheat on you?
Good. Better now than to waste another second of your life with him.
Forgot to pay that bill?
Good. Now you've learned the lessons of being financially responsible.
Boss being a dick?
Maybe it's time to make that career change you've always wanted.
You have three resources in your life.
TIME. MONEY. ENERGY.
Once you start spending these things on something, whether it's a job, hobby, addiction, person, or whatever, you're prioritizing that thing. Giving thought and time to a shitty thought is gonna prioritize the shitty thought.
Give time and energy to the good thought, well, that thought will take center stage.
I realized that to STOP being a crap magnet; I have to change my mindset and focus on what I want in my life - Unconditional love, integrity, passion, and so on.
I started this about three weeks ago, and I'm positive, happy, joyous, and so grateful to be where I am today. I have already noticed a HUGE DIFFERENCE regardless of where I am, others around me are smiling and happy. I feel their warmth, kindness, and a beautiful aura around them.
So, put your worries and problems into a box and start focusing on healing yourself, your family, and friends, focus on abundance of wealth, and see how your daily life changes.
Share what shows up for you!
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